Gifts for singles: Celebrate yourself – with sensuality, self-love and style
Time to read 5 min
Time to read 5 min
Being single no longer means waiting for something. It means being your own.
Modern sexuality is diverse, free, and self-determined—and that includes allowing yourself to give love and desire.
That's exactly what loveiu.ch is all about: conscious sexuality, mindfulness, and pleasure – for you, regardless of whether you're currently in a relationship or not.
In this article, you'll learn how to celebrate yourself as a single person—with small rituals, gifts to yourself, and moments that strengthen your sensuality, body awareness, and zest for life.
Singles are often asked, "So, when will it be your turn?" – as if happiness were something that only begins with a relationship. But the opposite is true: Self-love is the foundation for any kind of fulfilling relationship – including one with yourself.
Giving yourself a gift means taking responsibility for your well-being. It's not selfishness, but self-care.
A gift to you is a message: I am worth it.
The great thing about it is that when you learn to please yourself, you become less dependent on validation from others – and at the same time more open to genuine, equal relationships.
Many people feel lonely on certain days—like holidays, birthdays, or Valentine's Day. But you can redesign these days.
Make them your personal holidays of self-love.
Celebrate that you are going your own way, that you are free, that you are making decisions that are yours alone.
Shift the focus from “I am alone” to “I have myself.”
Because that is the basis of every fulfilled sensuality: knowing yourself, respecting – and loving yourself.
Gifts for singles are more than just consumerism. They're about moments that connect you with yourself—physically, emotionally, erotically, or simply in a way that feels good.
Schedule time for yourself, completely free of distractions. No phone, no obligations, no scrolling. Just you.
Maybe a walk, a bath, an evening with music and wine – or simply a moment of doing nothing.
This time isn't a luxury, but self-respect. It says, "I take myself seriously."
Touch is a basic need – and it starts with you.
Care for your body with conscious contact: a massage with fragrant oil, a scrub, a gentle touch that seeks nothing but closeness to yourself.
Sensuality doesn't automatically mean sex. It means feeling your body, without pressure, without a goal.
If you feel desire, you can live it out – with mindfulness, with curiosity, with love for yourself.
Masturbation is not a substitute for sex, but a form of sexuality in its own right.
It is the most intimate expression of self-love – because you get to know yourself better, feel what you like, and learn to let go.
Maybe it's a piece of jewelry that reminds you of your strength.
A fragrance that you wear only for yourself.
Or a piece of clothing that makes you feel sensual and confident – even if no one else sees it.
Feeling beautiful isn't a privilege for lovers. It's your birthright.
A gift to yourself will have a more lasting effect if you turn it into a ritual. This creates a new, loving habit.
The "I'm dating myself" dinner: Set the table beautifully, get dressed, and cook your favorite dish. No compromise, no rush—just enjoyment.
Care evening: candles, music, bath, skin care – give your body some attention without the pressure to perform.
Self-massage or mindful self-touch: Not to achieve a goal, but to experience closeness to yourself.
Gratitude journal: Write down three things you like about yourself every day. After a few weeks, this will change your perspective on yourself.
Often confused with guilt or excess, pleasure is actually a form of self-respect.
Enjoyment means perceiving the here and now – with all of your senses.
This could be a piece of chocolate, a walk in the rain, or a moment where you simply breathe.
The more consciously you enjoy, the deeper you become connected to your body and your desire.
Many singles use their time alone to rediscover their bodies—without comparison, without expectations, without the gaze of others.
Maybe you're just now realizing how beautiful your skin feels.
How your breath changes when you relax.
Or how much peace there is in embracing yourself without demanding anything from yourself.
Self-love doesn't mean finding yourself perfect.
It means looking at yourself kindly – with all your corners, curves, scars and stories.
You don't have to spend a lot of money to celebrate yourself. What matters is that it's genuine—that you do it consciously.
A few ideas:
• A day without social media – but with real moments.
• A massage or a wellness day just for you.
• A beautiful fragrance to wear when you want to feel special.
• A sensual evening with candles, music and maybe a little toy – simply because you feel like it.
• A notebook in which you record your wishes, dreams and fantasies.
A gift to yourself can also mean “no.”
Say no to things that drain your energy. Say no to people who belittle you. Say no to expectations that aren't yours.
Setting boundaries is one of the most important forms of self-respect. They show that you know your worth.
Especially as a single person, you can protect your space – because you design it just for yourself.
More and more people are choosing to live alone—and happily so. They're traveling, exploring their sexuality, building friendships, and developing professionally or creatively.
Being single doesn't mean giving up on love. It means redefining it—as something you give to yourself first.
Many discover a freedom in this phase that they have never experienced in relationships: the freedom to be authentic.
As a modern sex shop, loveiu.ch stands for more than just eroticism – for body acceptance, mindfulness, and conscious pleasure.
Celebrating yourself means taking your own sensuality seriously.
This can mean exploring your body, allowing your fantasies, or feeling comfortable with your sexuality – without shame, without comparison.
Desire isn't a gift from outside. It's within you. And you can celebrate it—with everything you are.
Gifts for singles are not a substitute action.
They are a declaration of love to yourself.
When you learn to give yourself gifts – with time, pleasure, tenderness or silence – your trust in yourself grows.
And that's exactly what makes you attractive: not because you need someone, but because you have yourself.
Celebrate yourself. Pamper yourself. Enjoy yourself.
Not someday – now.
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