

A moment of passion, a small tear – and suddenly panic sets in: The condom has broken ! Don't worry, you're not alone. Many people experience this situation at least once in their lives. What's crucial now is how you react correctly to minimize risks like unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
In our blog post, we explain step by step what to do if a condom breaks. As your trusted online sex shop, we not only accompany you through sensual pleasure, but also provide helpful tips.
1. Why do condoms break?
Before we clarify what you can do, it is important to understand why condoms break :
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Wrong size: A condom that is too small or too large can tear or slip off more easily.
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Mechanical stress: Excessive movements or a lack of sliding ability increase friction and thus the risk of cracking.
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Expiration date passed: Condoms have an expiration date. Old condoms lose their elasticity and tear more quickly.
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Incorrect storage: Heat, sunlight or mechanical pressure can damage the material.
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Using the wrong lubricants : Oil-based lubricants attack latex. Only water- or silicone-based lubricants are safe with latex condoms.
A high-quality condom from our online sex shop and proper use can significantly reduce the risk.
2. First steps: Stay calm and assess the situation
If the condom breaks during sex, the most important thing to do first is to stay calm . Panic won't help anyone. Take a deep breath and discuss what to do next.
Depending on the situation , there are different risks:
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Possibility of pregnancy
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Risk of sexually transmitted infection
Which measures make sense depends on several factors.
3. Risk of pregnancy: What to do?
If pregnancy is possible (for example, through vaginal intercourse without other contraception), you should act quickly.
Morning-after pill
The morning-after pill can prevent pregnancy by delaying ovulation. It should be taken as soon as possible after the accident—ideally within the first 24 hours, but no later than 72 to 120 hours (depending on the medication).
Important: The morning-after pill is available over-the-counter in pharmacies. In some countries, it can also be ordered online. Check the legal regulations in your region.
When is the morning-after pill useful?
- If the condom breaks and ejaculation occurs in the vagina.
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If it is unclear whether sperm have entered the vagina.
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When the fertile days are in the cycle.
Tip: Some women know their cycle very well. However, if in doubt, taking the morning-after pill is safer.

4. Protection against sexually transmitted infections
Not only is the risk of pregnancy an issue. If the condom breaks, there's also a risk of transmitting STIs such as:
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HIV
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Chlamydia
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Gonorrhea
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Herpes
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hepatitis
Immediate measures
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Urinating: Going to the bathroom immediately after sex can help flush out germs (especially true for men).
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Gently clean the genital area: Use lukewarm water, but do not use aggressive soaps.
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DO NOT overwash or rinse: This can damage the natural protective barrier of the mucous membranes.
Medical examination
If either of you is at increased risk of infection or has a known STI, you should see a doctor within a few hours. Post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) may sometimes be helpful, for example, if you're at risk for HIV.
5. When should I see a doctor?
You should consider seeing a doctor in the following cases:
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Risk of pregnancy
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Suspected STI
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Uncertainty about one's own infection status
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Persistent symptoms such as burning, discharge or pain
Preventive examinations help to detect and treat possible infections at an early stage.
6. How to minimize the risk in the future
A broken condom is unpleasant – but it can also be a wake-up call to question your own habits.
Here are some tips to avoid future mishaps:
Choosing the right condom size
A condom that's too big will slip off more easily, and one that's too small can tear. In our online sex shop, we offer a wide selection of sizes – from slim versions to XL condoms .
Use lubricant
Lubricant reduces friction and prevents condoms from breaking. Use only water-based or silicone-based lubricants when using latex condoms.
Buy high-quality condoms
Cheap condoms from the supermarket often don't deliver what they promise. Instead, invest in proven quality—for example, in brands you can find in our online erotic shop .
Proper storage
Store condoms in a cool, dry place. Avoid heat sources, direct sunlight, or keeping them in your wallet.
Correct application
Put the condom on correctly, leaving a small tip free at the front (the reservoir for the sperm) and making sure that no air bubbles form.
7. Don’t underestimate the psychological impact
A broken condom can be emotionally stressful. Feelings of guilt, fear of pregnancy or an STI, shame – all of this is completely normal.
Talk openly with each other. In some cases, it can be helpful to visit a counseling center together. Your family doctor or gynecologist can also be a good resource.
Sex should be enjoyable—not associated with anxiety. Together, you can overcome the situation and be better prepared in the future.
8. Conclusion: Keep calm and act informed
If a condom breaks, it's annoying, but it's far from the end of the world. By taking the right steps, you can minimize many risks:
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Find out about the morning-after pill .
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Protect yourself from sexually transmitted infections .
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Get medical help if necessary.
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In the future, make sure you use the right condom size and quality .
In our online sex shop, you'll find not only a large selection of condoms and lubricants , but also many other products designed to make your sex life safer and more exciting. Take a look around and discover how wonderful responsible pleasure can be.
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